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Ep 24 - You Don’t Attract What You Want—You Attract What You Feel Safe Having, Principle 2: Safety Regulates Your Reality


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You Don’t Attract What You Want—You Attract What You Feel Safe Having

Principle 2: Safety Regulates Your Reality

🔥 You’re not failing at manifesting.
 You’re just trying to call in a life your nervous system doesn’t feel safe holding.

In Episode 24 of Sovereignty Rising, Dawn Elgin brings the bold truth about why you keep repeating old patterns, attracting misaligned relationships, and sabotaging the very things you say you want.

“Your mind might want the breakthrough. But if your body associates it with danger, your system will block it.”

This episode isn’t mindset fluff—it’s trauma-informed co-creation. You’ll learn how to recognize your nervous system’s hidden rules, why you attract what you feel safe having (not what you desire), and how to start expanding your capacity to receive more.

🎧 This is Principle 2 of the 8-Part Principles of Co-Creation Series, rooted in Dawn’s upcoming book. If you’re ready to stop blaming yourself and start healing your receiving patterns, this is your episode.

⏱️ TIMESTAMPS / CHAPTERS

00:00 – Opening: Nervous System Reality
 01:37 – Why You Don’t Attract What You Want
 03:55 – Manifestation Isn’t Logic, It’s Somatic
 06:28 – Trauma as a Creation Pattern
 08:11 – The Truth About Safety and Success
 11:43 – Story: The Panic Behind the Expansion
 14:27 – Unconscious Rules of the Nervous System
 17:35 – Somatic Practice: Creating a Felt Sense of Safety
 22:42 – Journaling Prompt + Daily Regulation
 24:11 – Closing Transmission: The Body Always Knows


“If your body doesn’t feel safe being seen, loved, or abundant—no vision board will override that. Your nervous system is the gatekeeper of your reality.”

🎯 What You’ll Learn in This Episode

  • Why the nervous system—not your mindset—creates your lived reality
  • How trauma encodes “unwritten rules” that block what you consciously desire
  • Why your body might be resisting the very thing you say you want
  • A practical somatic tool to build safety, increase capacity, and shift your reality
  • How to stop blaming yourself and start healing the real barrier: dysregulated safety

🧘‍♀️ Guided Practice Highlight:

“Felt Safety Anchor” – Dawn guides a powerful breath-and-body technique to help your nervous system feel safe with more visibility, love, money, or success. This practice trains the body to become a safe space for expansion—so your system stops rejecting what you’re calling in.


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The Aligned Human ProjectBy Dawn Elgin