We mistakenly believe that what others think of us matters. We are so overly concerned with what they think that we spend our time worrying, doubting ourselves and not going for what we want.

We waste time worrying about what others think and feel about us instead of spending time improving ourselves – the inner state of being and our skills and knowledge.

We don’t embrace and acknowledge our true desires and intentions. We hold ourselves back from what we want and we haven’t created the success we desire because we’re not clear or focused enough.

People will always judge you, whether you are working towards your desires or not. If we can’t be free from the opinions and judgments of others, then we will always be affected by them

Our ancient minds and our childhood programming taught us to be concerned about what the tribe thinks and what people in authority (parents and teachers) think of us. We got attached to pleasing others to manage rewards and consequences.

But now you’re an adult and you can take care of yourself. what others perceive about you is not important to your survival. The mistaken belief that others are here to reward or punish you and therefore you need to be a certain way to gain their approval leads to extreme fear of criticism and judgment from others.

There is a way out! In today’s episode, I talk about how to let go of what others think and redirect your focus on your desires.

When you learn what to pay attention to and how to let go, you’ll create more ease, inner peace, confidence; you’ll take inspired action, have an easier time being with people, and attract the people you want in your life.

You get to be at peace with yourself. You’ll know what you want and you’ll be focused and clear. You’ll be a master manifestor because you’re no longer blocking yourself from your true desires.

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