You can be Ready. You can be Willing. You can have the cutest profile pictures and the best intentions.

But if you—or your partner—do not have the skills to do the job? The relationship will collapse.

In this episode, we complete the Trinity by asking the hardest question of all: Are You Able?

To answer this, we have to talk about Mr. East Side, the trap of the "Cool Pick Me Girl," and the one roll of toilet paper (or lack thereof) that defined my entire standard for love.

In this episode:

• Capacity vs. Availability: Why being "Able" isn't just about being single—it's about having the emotional capacity to show up.
• The Toilet Paper Reality: How I accepted a stack of newspapers instead of a roll of Charmin, and what that said about my self-worth.
• Retiring the "Cool Pick Me Girl": Why performing "easiness" is actually the hardest job in the world.
• Put Down The Extra Oar: If you stop rowing for two people, does the boat sink? (And why that's actually a good thing).

It’s time to raise the floor. You deserve a clean bathroom. Do not accept the newspaper.

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