In this episode of 'Unspoken Grief,' hosts Michael Vinton, Tina Chevalier, and Kristina Faulkner engage in a powerful conversation with Bevin Vinton about her experience of losing both her husband and mother in a murder suicide. Bevin discusses the complexities of grieving for both the perpetrator and the victim, recounting the harrowing details of that tragic day and her journey toward healing. The episode emphasizes the importance of mental health awareness and forgiveness, while offering support and understanding to those navigating similar paths of loss. Listeners are advised about the sensitive content and are encouraged to seek help if needed. The conversation serves as a vital reminder that no one is alone in their grief, and that healing, though challenging, is possible.  

00:00 Introduction to Unspoken Grief Podcast
01:16 Meet the Hosts
03:01 Introducing Special Guest: Bevin Vinton
03:37 Sharing Personal Loss Stories
06:30 Bevin's Background and Life Before the Tragedy
20:26 The Day of the Tragedy
30:25 Receiving the Suicide Note
32:13 Understanding Over Controllers
35:12 Jimmy's Apology and Family Dynamics
37:38 Support Systems and Relationships
42:05 Grieving Both the Perpetrator and the Victim
47:42 Witnessing the Tragedy
53:05 Coping with Trauma and Triggers
54:47 Unique Relationships in Murder-Suicide Cases
01:01:46 Final Thoughts and Advice
01:04:21 Conclusion and Resources

988 Lifeline number: https://988lifeline.org/ 
At the 988 Suicide & Crisis Lifeline, we understand that life's challenges can sometimes be complex. Whether you're facing mental health struggles, emotional distress, alcohol or drug use concerns, or just need someone to talk to, our caring counselors are here for you. You are not alone.  

Didi Hirsch Mental Services: didihirsch.org  

Crisis Text Line Text HOME to 741741 Free, 24/7 Mental Health Support   

Michael Vinton
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Tina Chevalier
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Kristina Faulkner
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