Parents & Teens Rising

Ep. 3: Setting Boundaries with Your Teen without Constant Conflict


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Setting boundaries with our teens can feel like walking a tightrope — one wrong move and the whole thing can spiral into arguments, resentment, or total shutdown.

But here’s the truth: boundaries don’t have to create distance. In fact, when done well, they strengthen your connection.

In this episode, I’m sharing practical tools and real-life examples to help you set healthy boundaries with your teen while keeping trust and respect intact. We’ll talk about when to hold firm, when to let things go, and how to include your teen’s voice in the process so they feel heard — not controlled.

If you’ve been feeling like you’re constantly walking on eggshells or fighting the same battles over and over, this episode will give you a fresh perspective and tools you can start using today.

What You’ll Learn in This Episode
  • Why boundaries are about guidance, safety, and respect — not control
  • How to start boundary conversations without triggering defensiveness
  • Why including your teen’s voice makes boundaries more effective
  • How to know which battles to fight and which ones to let go
  • The 5-to-1 rule for strengthening connection with your teen
  • Why giving your teen space can actually bring you closer
  • A real-life example from my own parenting journey — and what I learned
Resources & Links Mentioned in This Episode

Rise Up & Ignite Coaching Programs — Help your teen move from anxiety and avoidance to confidence and action.
https://youth.guided-passages.com/rise-up--ignite

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Parents & Teens RisingBy Jasmyne Chandler