My love,

Here’s this week’s Magic Divorce Club podcast episode:

Ep 31: It’s not really about the house

Why housing decisions in divorce feel so loaded, and what’s actually underneath them

If the house feels like the hardest part of divorce, you are not being dramatic because very often, the decisions you need to make aren’t actually about the house.

It is about what’s IN the house.

What the house represents.What it has held.What you think you might lose.

In this episode, I talk about why the house can carry so much emotional weight in divorce.

* Safety.

* Motherhood.

* Identity.

* Money.

* Grief.

* The future you thought you were going to have.

And WHY you might be feeling stuck.

I also talk about:

* why moving can feel far more unsettling in your body than you expect

* why staying is not always the safest option

* why selling is not failure

* why change can feel dangerous, even when it may actually be better for you

* why there can be different parts of you wanting different things at the same time

If where you’re going to live has been a hard issue for you, I think this episode will help you feel less alone with it.

Listen above or wherever you get your podcasts.

And if you are listening and thinking yes, this is exactly the part I’m stuck in, this month’s Magic Divorce Club workshop next Wednesday is here to help with both sides of it.

What Happens to the House?

Wednesday 29 April at 12pm UK

This is emotional support first, practical clarity second.

So not a huge overwhelming info dump.

A steadier space to help you work through both the practical questions and the emotional weight they are carrying.

You can reserve your place here:

Please note, this workshop is included for LUXE members, you can upgrade your membership here.

If decisions around the house feel huge, that because they are.

It’s so much more than just a house and you don’t have to figure it all out today.

You’ve got this. And I’ve got you.

Hannah XOX

PS Show notes

In this episode I mention:

* the shame triggers around motherhood - inspired by Brene Brown

* An earlier MDC episode:

* the earlier episode with Suzie on the practical side of the house question:

* This months’s workshop What Happens to the House? on Wednesday 29 April

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