In this episode, we reflect on a popular quote, "find a partner who can love you the way you want to be loved as opposed to the way they want to love you." What is the "love" being described here? What is it to have your needs met in your romantic relationship? What should you ask for from your partner? We go deep on what's problematic with this quote and share many examples of relationships problems related to it. Send us your questions at cailinohara.com/deepaf