Most men who identify as “nice,” “good,” or deeply supportive don't recognize the pattern running beneath their most intimate relationships.

You try to help.

You hold space.

You soothe.

You try to be steady.

And despite all that effort… your partner still feels alone.

In this episode, we talk about what causes “good guys” to panic inside when our partner is emotional — and how that panic silently turns “holding space” into distance and conflict.

If you’ve ever felt helpless when she’s upset, or frustrated that nothing you do seems to help, this episode will hit home.

Mentioned in this episode:

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• Sign up for the priority waitlist for the 21-day men’s program: https://www.davelishansky.com/waitlist

May knowing yourself better deepen every corner of your love.