"You were never meant to be the glue. You were never meant to hold the emotional weight of your family. That was never the job of a child, and it does not have to be the job of the woman you are now." --Angela

In this episode, listeners will learn:

• The real emotional and behavioral patterns behind “eldest daughter syndrome” and why it’s not just a meme but a lived experience for so many women.
• How these early family roles shape how eldest daughters show up in adulthood, relationships, motherhood, and their own emotional wellbeing.
• How to interrupt the cycle, heal your own patterns, and create a different emotional environment for your daughter.
• Small, doable shifts (for both eldest daughters and parents of eldest daughters) that help replace pressure with presence, perfection with humanity, and responsibility with rest.

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In this episode, I’m sharing something deeply personal, the invisible pressure that so many eldest daughters carry and how it quietly shapes our identities, our relationships, and the way we mother. As a firstborn daughter myself, I’ve lived this pattern. I know what it feels like to be the steady one, the responsible one, the emotional anchor. I also know what it took to finally recognize that those roles were never mine to carry in the first place.

I walk you through how this pattern develops, how it impacts us as adults, and how it can unintentionally show up in the way we parent our own daughters. Most importantly, I share the small, powerful shifts I’m making in real time: moves toward softness, toward being held, and toward giving my daughter the protection of her childhood. If you’re an eldest daughter, raising one, or loving one, this conversation is going to feel like permission you didn’t know you needed.

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