Closet Philosophy

Ep. 32: What happens when you stop trying to be pretty


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In this episode of Closet Philosophy, Kristen and Jennine explore what it means to age visibly, dress authentically, and resist the pressure to always be striving for youth and prettiness. We start with a reflection on the cultural impact of Catherine O'Hara, her premature passing, and the rare visibility of older women who embrace their faces, bodies, and style without apology.

From there, we dive into a wide-ranging discussion about beauty standards, midlife identity, and the complicated relationship many women have with being seen. We unpack how personal style can serve as both armor and self-expression—and why midlife is often the moment when women finally begin dressing for themselves rather than for approval.

The episode also touches on:

  • How media and celebrity culture shape expectations of aging

  • The politics of visibility for women over 50

  • Why confidence often grows as the pressure to please fades

  • The role of clothing in reclaiming identity during life transitions

  • Letting go of "flattering" rules that were never designed for real bodies

As always, Closet Philosophy reminds listeners that getting dressed is never just about clothes. It's about power, self-definition, and the freedom to show up in the world exactly as you are.

Connect with us!Follow along for more conversations about personal style, aging, and cultural shifts. Share this episode with a friend who's rethinking what it means to be visible and fully expressed in midlife!

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Closet PhilosophyBy Jennine Jacob and Kristen Philipkoski

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