In this powerful conversation, Kristen and Allison explore the real dynamics beneath modern relationship tension—especially for strong, independent women who lead at work but crave softness and support at home.They unpack how childhood wounding can shape adult relationship roles, why women often struggle to transition out of “go mode,” and why many men unconsciously fall back into their feminine when their partner is already in the driver’s seat. You’ll hear insights on polarity, nervous system regulation, and how each partner can step into a healthier expression of both their masculine and feminine energies.Topics include:• Why high-achieving women struggle to soften and receive support• How masculine and feminine energy show up in the bedroom• What men really crave, and what women need to feel safe enough to soften• Emotional containment vs. emotional dumping• The difference between healthy feminine expression and the shadow feminine• How co-regulation and self-awareness keep relationships thriving• Why the quality of your relationships is the #1 predictor of your health and longevity• How to shift from “competition for control” to true partnershipThis episode is a deep dive into the energetics of love, connection, attraction, and balance. Whether you're in a relationship or seeking one, you’ll walk away with practical insights to create healthier, more nourishing connection—with yourself and with your partner.Resources:—Get clarity on WHY you attract certain partners and WHAT your relationship conflicts are actually about at interconnectedlove.com

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