Links mentioned in this episode:

⁠How to Find a Kinky Partner or like minded people Online⁠

⁠The BDSM Love Language Self-Discovery Test⁠

Even though my show is about BDSM, Kink and fetishes. Even if you’re Vanilla or Kinky all the tips I give you today will be helpful no matter what you are.

If you’ve ever felt overwhelmed by endless swiping, ghosting, or trying to decode someone’s “looking for vibes” profile—you’re not alone. I’m here to help you navigate the wild, wonderful, and sometimes weird world of digital connections.

In this episode, I’ll walk you through:

• The best dating apps and platforms for kink-friendly connections (mainstream and niche)
• How to create a profile that actually attracts the right people
• Tips for being upfront about your identity, desires, and boundaries
• My favorite ways to spot a catfish before it wastes your time (including the Spoon Test—yes, really 🥄) -Fun but meaningful conversation starters to move beyond small talk
• Why consent, communication, and emotional safety are non-negotiable -And how to use my BDSM Love Language Self-Discovery Test to build trust and spark real compatibility

⁠Website⁠ | ⁠Blog⁠ | ⁠DIY-Diagrams⁠ | ⁠Sub App⁠ | ⁠Booking

Which parts were most helpful to you?

• Referenced Dating Sites
• Dating Profile Tips
• BDSM Love Language Test
• Communication & Consent
• Q's:Conversation Starters
• CatFish Tips
• All of the Above