Button Downs And Basketball Shorts

Ep 40: Hey, You Owe Me

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We are generally conditioned to be transactional in our relationships. The phrase “give and take” is a prime example of this. But we are not taught that this is a trap. We discuss the subtleties of the give-and-take paradigm. A person’s beliefs around this paradigm will greatly hinder or enhance the depth of relationships.


  • Relating to give and take as keeping score
  • The trap of the give-and-take paradigm
  • Transactional expectations
  • Using give and take for the purpose of deepening authentic relationships
  • Energy projected with a hidden agenda
  • Allowing and receiving
  • Learning to receive fully
  • Not learning to receive can lead to resentment
  • Asking for help as a way to access our feminine energy



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    Button Downs And Basketball ShortsBy Jeff Miller & Tatsu Fushimi