What if the reason you’re not being chosen… is because you’re not choosing yourself?

In this episode, I’m diving into one of the biggest themes of my life — and maybe yours too — the pattern of not being picked.

In relationships. In business. In jobs. In those tiny moments that started way back in childhood and slowly became part of your identity.

We’re talking about mirror neurons and how your nervous system is broadcasting your self-concept before you even open your mouth.

We’re talking about the law of reflections and how your energy field carries the script you’re running about yourself.

And we’re talking about radical responsibility — not as self-blame, but as self-leadership.

Because if you’re walking around with the belief “I’m not chosen,” that frequency gets mirrored back to you.

But the moment you start choosing yourself — setting boundaries, backing your value, walking away from what’s half-in — everything shifts.

This episode is part neuroscience, part universal law, part lived experience. And it might lovingly call you out.

You are not unchosen. You might just be waiting for someone else to validate what you haven’t fully claimed yet.

Stop auditioning.

Pick yourself.

Watch what happens.

Listen to Episode 7 here (Law of Reflections)

Listen to the Putting Yourself First episode here