The option exists to let go trying to make things other than what they are. To let go and let be. To flow with life as it is and withdraw all opinions and preferences about how it should be. When this level of surrender occurs, then less and less bothers us. We are at one and unified with life and so, whatever happens within life is seen more a gift for greater understanding and alignment with the truth than a hindrance or a curse upon our lives. This yin or chill way of being results in a life of great awareness of the presence of divinity as the source of one's life.