This episode starts with more updates from Emily on how men continue to disappoint us, but what else is new? Elaina drops a truth bomb early on, and then we reminisce about cringey voicemails and feet-stuff. After all that fun stuff, we get into how to reprogram your brain when talking to people you deem to be more attractive. First things first, we think you’re incredibly hot and if you ever need a boost hit us up! Second, you have nothing to lose! (And if you’re Charlotte you have nothing, period.) Society’s version of attractive is not always everyone’s taste, and you’re just as hot and desirable as anyone else. All of our ancestors got laid, and so can you! We discuss the differences in cocky vs. confident people and how to fake it till you make it. One can get you laid and the other can get you blacklisted. Plus, if you’re genuinely enjoying yourself and treating yourself as the main character, you’ll have a better time anyway! Remember: it’s not about being hotter than other people, it’s about being the hottest version of yourself. So wear what YOU want, embrace your imperfections, and maybe you’ll meet Matthew Gray Gubler! All this and more on Babes and Bad Decisions!