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Ep 47: Breaking the Pursuer/Avoider Cycle for Good
In this episode, Roy and Jacqueline discuss the common 'Pursuer-Avoider Cycle' that many couples face after sexual infidelity and betrayal trauma. They share personal experiences, practical strategies, and deep insights on how to break free from this cycle. Learn how to identify primary and secondary emotions, and discover actionable steps for both pursuers and avoiders to foster healing and connection. Tune in to gain valuable advice and find hope in your recovery journey.
00:00 Introduction and Welcome
00:39 Personal Story: Remodeling Challenges
02:16 Understanding the Pursuer-Avoider Cycle
07:51 The Pursuer's Perspective
10:57 The Avoider's Perspective
25:07 Breaking the Cycle: Practical Steps
34:51 Conclusion and Weekly Challenge
Free Assessment: Is the Recovery Real? 9 Vital Questions for Addicts & Partners - https://www.joy-recovery.com/real-recovery
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Coaching: https://www.joy-recovery.com/coaching
Groups: https://www.joy-recovery.com/groups
YouTube channel: https://www.youtube.com/@JoyRecovery
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In this episode, Roy and Jacqueline discuss the common 'Pursuer-Avoider Cycle' that many couples face after sexual infidelity and betrayal trauma. They share personal experiences, practical strategies, and deep insights on how to break free from this cycle. Learn how to identify primary and secondary emotions, and discover actionable steps for both pursuers and avoiders to foster healing and connection. Tune in to gain valuable advice and find hope in your recovery journey.
00:00 Introduction and Welcome
00:39 Personal Story: Remodeling Challenges
02:16 Understanding the Pursuer-Avoider Cycle
07:51 The Pursuer's Perspective
10:57 The Avoider's Perspective
25:07 Breaking the Cycle: Practical Steps
34:51 Conclusion and Weekly Challenge
Free Assessment: Is the Recovery Real? 9 Vital Questions for Addicts & Partners - https://www.joy-recovery.com/real-recovery
Free Newsletter: joy-recovery.com
Coaching: https://www.joy-recovery.com/coaching
Groups: https://www.joy-recovery.com/groups
YouTube channel: https://www.youtube.com/@JoyRecovery
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