October is Domestic Violence Awareness month, and I too had an experience with this issue, that has hurt and taking precious lives.  No one should go through such an ordeal, for life is a precious gift that some do not respect.  Do we know why this happens?  In some cases we do and others are a mystery, but one thing we do know, there is a way out.  If you or someone you know is a victim of this senseless behavior, seek help!  There are agencies in every state which you can find online for help.  Also you can visit National Domestic Violence Hotline or call 1-800-799-7233