Episode 5: Why You Keep Attracting the Same Type of Person

If your relationships keep feeling the same—draining, confusing, inconsistent, or one-sided—it’s probably not just bad luck. There’s a pattern underneath it.

In this episode, we dive into the connection between self-abandonment, nervous system patterns, and the roles we unconsciously play inside our relationships. Because it’s not just about who we attract—it’s also about what we tolerate, overlook, and continue choosing.

I talk about how relationships can act like mirrors, why familiarity can feel like chemistry, and the deeper reasons we stay in dynamics that don’t actually feel good for us.

We also explore:

• over-giving and people-pleasing
• avoidant dynamics and emotional unavailability
• why “chemistry” can sometimes be nervous system activation
• the small moments where self-abandonment begins
• how to start interrupting old relationship patterns

If you’ve ever found yourself asking, “Why does this keep happening to me?”—this episode is for you.

If something in this episode resonated and you’re feeling the pull to go deeper—

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