Polarity isn’t the problem, performance is. In this episode, Dr. Saida and Aaron Michael break down why “masculine/feminine” roles can turn intimacy into ideology, and how real magnetism is built through embodiment, coherence, and felt-state attunement.

In the episode

• Polarity as a dynamic, not a persona

• Magnetism = charge, not jargon

• Why “chemistry” can be dysregulation

• Coherence and embodied truth as the foundation of real attraction

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• Breath + pelvic-floor cues to wake arousal and build charge

• Micro-adjustments, pacing, and “hold right there” calibration

• Attunement cues (voice, timing, sensation tracking) in real time

• Security > safety: truth as sexy, coherence as the foundation

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