Aja dives into the often-overlooked but crucial connection between reliability and manifestation. She explains how keeping your word, honoring commitments (to yourself and others), and practicing self-trust are essential for signaling to the universe that you're truly ready to receive your desires. This episode is packed with practical advice on how to cultivate reliability and why it's so vital for creating a life and relationships you love.

Key Points:

• Reliability = Trustworthiness (0:00): Aja emphasizes that being a "flake" or breaking commitments (even small ones) sends a message to the universe (and yourself) that your words can't be trusted.
• You Are the Universe (1:40): The concept that we are all connected and co-creating our reality, so breaking commitments reflects back on our worthiness.
• Self-Worth & Baggage (2:30): Unkept promises create negative feelings and a sense of unworthiness, hindering manifestation.
• Honoring Your Feelings (4:00): The importance of being honest with yourself and others about your capacity and desires, and saying "no" when necessary.
• Non-Negotiables (6:45): Acknowledging essential commitments (rent, etc.) while focusing on choices in social and personal commitments.
• Manifesting Love (8:00): Connecting reliability to attracting healthy relationships; you must mean what you say when manifesting a soulmate.
• The Ripple Effect (10:00): How keeping commitments builds trust with others (clients, family, etc.) and creates a positive cycle.
• Trust in Relationships (14:00): Reliability is foundational for trust; broken commitments erode relationships.
• Setting Boundaries (18:00): Saying "no" is self-care and protects your energy, allowing you to honor the commitments you do make.
• Quick Wins for Reliability (24:00):
  • Identify what you want to do, not what you feel obligated to do.
  • Start with small, achievable commitments.
  • Plan your day around your desires.
  • Make necessary tasks more enjoyable (e.g., podcasts while doing laundry).
• Acting "As If" (28:00): Embodying the energy of already having what you desire through consistent, reliable actions.
• Self-Reflection (31:00): If you're the "flake," examine the underlying reasons and work towards change.
• Listener Engagement (35:00): Aja encourages listeners to share their experiences and strategies for becoming more reliable.\

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