What Keeps You Up at Night

Ep 6.28 Let's Agree to Disagree on This (pt. 2)


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This is another really full episode and it’s on the longer side but it’s really good. There’s not a dull moment. I’ve highlighted some points below. I’m talking more about the book, “Notes on Being a Man,” by Scott Galloway. The book looks at what many men are experiencing today through a lens that says, “It’s not your fault, but the world changed and no one gave you the software update, so here’s a book that might help.”

I challenge some of the ideas and agree with others. That’s life, sometimes we see things the same way and other times we don’t. Depends on the lens you’re looking through. It’s a fun perspective, not a review of the book but I use the book as inspiration for this conversation.

Here are some of my talking points:

  • Continuing the conversation sparked by Notes on Being a Man by Scott Galloway
    • Why “agree to disagree” often shuts down real communication
    • Observations about negotiation, male–female dynamics, and standing your ground while negotiating
    • Reflection on how men and women are both struggling in today’s changing social and economic landscape
    • Discussion of provider roles, expectations of men, and how culture shapes those expectations
    • Personal stories about money roles, upbringing, and relationship dynamics
    • Manners, etiquette, and how social media has shifted how we treat each other
    • The disappearance of community influence, including the role of aunties and uncles
    • How money stories influence confidence, dating, and identity, especially for young men
    • Competition between men and women versus collaboration
    • Reflection on Scott Galloway’s book as a father’s perspective and legacy message to younger men
    • Self-awareness, hindsight, and how his personal growth can become impact for others
  • Question of the Day
    • How did you learn your manners?

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      What Keeps You Up at NightBy Kiné Corder