In this pre‑Valentine’s Day episode of The XrossroadZ Podcast, we’re getting real about LOVE, not the highlight reel, but the truth.

We’re talking about what we thought love would look like when we were younger…
What we expected based on movies, music, family, and culture…
And how our real‑life experiences reshaped everything we believed about relationships.

In this episode, we explore:
✨ How childhood and culture shaped our ideas about romance
✨ The difference between love as a fantasy vs love as a practice
✨ How we showed up in early relationships
✨ The partners, heartbreaks, and lessons that taught us how to love better
✨ What mature, grown‑folk love looks like
✨ Why love in your 40s can feel more intentional, honest, and emotionally grounded

Whether you’re single, dating, married, healing, or figuring it out — this conversation will meet you right where you are.

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