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Are you single and near hitting the big 4-0? Or maybe you're just curious about what it's like to be riding solo in your forties? Well, in this episode we're discussing what it's like to be single (or single again) your 30s and 40s.

Join us as we chat about everything from embracing the freedom of solo adventures to conquering the dating scene with all its modern twists and turns. We've got stories that'll make you laugh, nod in agreement, and inspire you to live your best life, no matter what your relationship status is.

Whether you're rocking the single life or you're just here for the juicy deets, we promise a rollercoaster ride of humor, heart, and a whole lot of real talk. 

Don't forget to like, subscribe, and drop your thoughts in the comments below; we love hearing from you! Let's keep this convo going—because, let's be honest, life in your 40s is just getting started, and we're here for every fabulous minute of it. 🚀

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In today's episode, we dive headfirst into the rollercoaster that is modern relationships—seatbelts optional but highly recommended—rolling up our sleeves and tackling a topic that can feel like a plot twist in a rom-com: cheating. 🤯

Let's unravel the mystery of what cheating really is—because let's be real, it's not just sneaky texts or those "work happy hours" that seem to happen far too often. We'll chat about common relationship gaps and how to build a bridge instead of (perhaps) burning it all down. Spoiler alert: communication is your new best friend.

But that's not all, folks! We're here to guide you through the murky waters of surviving infidelity (should you choose to). Whether you're deciding to patch things up or starting fresh, we've got tips, real-life stories, and maybe a few laughs along the way. Because, hey you know us, if we can't laugh about it, we might just cry. 😅 #BF2BY

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We've all been there, right? That nagging little voice in your head that whispers, "Are you sure you're good enough?" Well, it's time to turn down the volume on that inner critic and crank up the tunes of self-belief!

In this episode, we're serving up a hearty helping of tips to help you tackle those pesky doubts and build a rock-solid foundation of confidence. We'll share relatable stories, a few laugh-out-loud moments, and some genuine advice that's as comforting as your favorite cozy sweater. 🧥💡

Whether you're a Gen X'er reminiscing about life before the internet or a Millennial mastering the art of the side hustle, there's something here for everyone. We're keeping it real, inclusive, and totally judgment-free, because let's face it—we're all in this together. #bf2by 

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In this episode, we're diving into the art of friendship—because let's face it, having a solid friend is kinda like having your own personal cheerleader, but with fewer pom-poms and more emotional support. 🤗 We're sharing our thoughts on how to be there for your peeps when life gets a bit too real. Whether it's offering a shoulder to cry on or just knowing when to send that perfectly timed GIF, we're breaking it all down for you.

Plus, spoiler alert: It's A-OK to need some backup too! We’re swapping stories from our own friendship adventures and dropping some gems that have worked for us. Because in the end, we're all just trying to figure out this crazy ride together, right?

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Have you ever felt your heart drop when a loved one starts a sentence with, "Can I be honest?" Or maybe you've been the one tiptoeing around feedback like it's a landmine. Well, you're not alone. In this episode, it gets real about criticism—what it is, what it isn't, and how on earth it can actually be constructive.

Join Barz & Dre Renee to unpack the art of giving and receiving criticism without triggering a family feud or a friendship fallout. They even share candid anecdotes from their own lives!

Explore how to approach those tricky conversations with empathy and humor, ensuring that your relationships emerge stronger and more resilient.  So, grab your favorite snack, settle in, and let's turn those "ouch" moments into opportunities for connection and positivity.

0:00 Introduction
2:57 Sponsors: House of 334
5:29 Constructive Criticism
14:24 Calling out a shortfall with negative impact
25:40 How criticism makes us feel
36:52 Family examples
50:38 Being courageous
1:03:55 Final Thoughts

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Welcome to a 2-part deep dive that's as real as it gets. Join us for an unfiltered chat with Dr. Harold Eugene Vann II, a former pastor who's bravely pulling back the curtain on his life in his upcoming book, The Black Couch: A Memoir of a Pastor's Private Pain in Public Places.

In Part 2, we dig deeper into his journey of redemption and healing. Dr. Vann opens up about the courage it took to confront his past, embrace vulnerability, and ultimately find peace. It's a story of resilience, hope, and the powerful transformation that happens when you decide to face your truth head-on.

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Welcome to a 2-part deep dive that's as real as it gets. Join us for an unfiltered chat with Dr. Harold Eugene Vann II, a former pastor who's bravely pulling back the curtain on his life in his upcoming book, The Black Couch: A Memoir of a Pastor's Private Pain in Public Places.

In these episodes, Dr. Vann takes us on a heartfelt journey through his personal history—a saga filled with feelings of abandonment and inadequacy. This isn't just another tale from the pulpit; it's a raw, honest look at the human side of pastoral life. From the outside, it might have seemed like he had it all together, but inside, he was wrestling with unhealed wounds that sometimes led him down paths of promiscuity even amidst his sacred calling.

Part 1 sets the stage, diving into Dr. Vann's early experiences and the emotional scars that shaped his world. We'll explore how these inner battles influenced his actions and what it meant to juggle his public persona with his private pain.

In Part 2, we dig deeper into his journey of redemption and healing. Dr. Vann opens up about the courage it took to confront his past, embrace vulnerability, and ultimately find peace. It's a story of resilience, hope, and the powerful transformation that happens when you decide to face your truth head-on.

And Follow Dr. Vann on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/harold.vannii

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In this episode, we  journey through the nuances of friendships that Xennials, and honestly anyone, can relate to.

We explore how friendships blossom, change, and sometimes fade, much like the seasons themselves. Ever wondered if the way you became friends matters in the long run? We tackle this question head-on, and discuss safeguarding our friendships with honest conversations and how to keep those connections strong amidst life's chaos, including the ever-tricky balance of money, careers, and family.

Ever had a friend with no ambition? We even get real about contemplating whether it's okay to drift apart when goals and dreams don't quite align anymore. Listen all the way through to hear our Q&A segment for thoughtful advice on recognizing when a friendship no longer serves you.

So, whether you’re driving to work or enjoying a quiet night in, tune in for an episode that promises to be as insightful and entertaining, with just the right mix of laughter and lessons.

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This week, we're diving headfirst into the world of first dates and how the game has changed since we were passing handwritten notes or anxiously waiting by a landline. Remember those simpler times? Well, buckle up, because dating in the age of social media is a whole new ballgame!

Join us as we reminisce about our early dating days and compare them to the swipe-right culture of today. We're breaking down the modern criteria that have emerged, like social media stalking (ahem, "research"), and how these platforms have reshaped what we look for in a partner. Spoiler alert: It’s about more than just a good profile picture!

We'll also share some timeless do's and don'ts that still hold true, whether you’re dipping your toes back into the dating pool or navigating it for the first time. Plus, we're answering listener questions about keeping the conversation flowing on a date—because let's face it, sometimes small talk is a big deal—and spotting those pesky red flags before they become full-blown sirens.

As always, we’ll wrap up with our final thoughts from Barzini and Dre Renee, offering insights and encouragement to help you find love—or at least a fun night out—in today’s fast-paced dating scene. So, grab your favorite drink, settle in, and let's chat about the wild, wonderful world of modern romance. You won't want to miss it!

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Hey there, Roadies and RoadDawgs! Grab your favorite beverage and settle in, because we’re back with a brand-new season of XrossroadZ Podcast, and this one’s extra special. Not only are we celebrating our fourth birthday (can you believe it?), but we’re diving deep into the heart of what makes being a Xennial so uniquely... us.

Ever wonder how the name XrossroadZ came to be? We’re spilling the tea on our origin story, tracing back to those early days when we were all about the "he said, she said" of relationships. Now, we’re evolving, just like our friendship, and affirming why we’re still each other’s ride-or-die after all these years.

This season, we’re changing things up and focusing on something really close to our hearts: the intersection of Gen X and Millennial life. As Xennials, we get the best (and maybe the craziest) of both worlds, and we’re building a community to tackle our shared traumas and triumphs together. We’re here to explore what truly matters to you, our loyal listeners.

So, tell us, what topics do you want us to dive into this season? Share your thoughts, your stories, and let’s navigate these crossroads together. Welcome back to XrossroadZ—where every conversation encourages you to #BF2BY. 🌟

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