Finding the right match for marriage isn’t something we are taught which is a conundrum when divorce rates are as high as fifty percent. Is it wrong if we are obsessed with the need to have “chemistry” (especially because the film industry has been romanticizing love for over a century)? 

Alison Armstrong, author and relationship coach explains that we are all too often driven by the “survival of the species” instinct where we look for desired genetic traits to make children rather than listen to our hearts as we search for a true partner. 

Here are a few important questions Alison asks in order for you to build chemistry, find  long term happiness and fulfillment in a healthy partnership: 

Does your partner amplify you?

Do they make you the best version of you? 

Do they “see you?”

Do they listen to you? 

Do you have resonance with them?

Are you attracted to the “strong  bad boy” type? 

If you are in a relationship and feel mismatched or lost, Alison Armstrong will help you better understand each other to improve intimacy and connection.

Books by Alison

Keys to the Kingdom by Alison Armstrong - https://www.amazon.com/Keys-to-Kingdom-audiobook/dp/B00B0G26GO/ref=sr_1_3?crid=NNY1TRS95D0A&keywords=alison+armstrong+books&qid=1676467716&sprefix=alison+armst%2Caps%2C109&sr=8-3

The Queens Code by Alison Armstrong - https://www.amazon.com/Queens-Code-Alison-Armstrong/dp/B01DAYC348/ref=tmm_pap_swatch_0?_encoding=UTF8&qid=1676467716&sr=8-2 

Website

https://www.alisonarmstrong.com/ 

Related episodes: 

Episode 61 The Five Love Languages-How to Express and Receive the love you want

Episode 66 On Love Sex and Intimacy 

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