In this episode:

• Why we idealize past relationships, especially after a breakup.
• The impact of selective memory and how it keeps you stuck.
• Practical steps to shift focus from the ex to building a fulfilling life.

Timestamps:

00:00 Intro 02:30 My own experience with romanticizing an ex 03:00 What we're covering in this episode 04:00 What is romanticization 05:00 Why we romanticize exes 05:27 Protecting the idea of the relationship and what it could of been 06:05 Hormonal changes 08:10 Getting nostalgic about your ex 09:00 Getting different perspectives from people you trust 11:40 Giving yourself a reality check 13:40 Our brain is trying to keep us safe in the familiar 14:50 Try to protect our sense of identity 18:05 Fear of being alone 19:00 How media & society perpetuate the idea of "the one who got away" 21:45 The cost of romantisizing your ex 23:45 How to start romanticizing your own life 29:30 My top piece of advice for romanticizing your own life 31:30 Free Masterclass - Heartbreak to Hapinnes (Your blueprint to feeling better after a breakup) 32:40 Outro

Podcast Host: Lucy Price

Links

Join The Heartbreak to Happiness Masterclass HERE

Get the "Feel Your Feelings Guide" HERE

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Breakup Workshop: This workshop breaks down my moving on method (the direct steps you can take to get over your ex and move forward). Workbook included. Get the workshop here ⬇️ Over It: Breakup Workshop

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