Coming Out Late

Ep. #76: Talking "Religion" w/Late Blooming Queer Clergy Folx, Part 2


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In this Part 2 episode of the Coming Out Late podcast, Robin continues the conversation with her first panel of late blooming clergy folx who all found one another within Robin’s Coming Out Late Facebook Group.

In this Part 2 episode you will hear Robin and her panel of late blooming queer clergy discuss… 

How for most of us, it simply never occurred to us to explore our sexuality.

  • What do our queer clergy folx say to people who condemn them for being gay?
  • Southern Baptist versus Northern Baptist - what is the difference? Was there a difference? Is there a difference today?
  • Should we engage in conversations about religion and homosexuality with people outside the gay community? When is it safe to? Is it ever safe to? When is it worth our time and energy to engage in deeper religious conversations with homophobic people?
  • What IS “perfectionism”?
  • “What advice do you have for someone that still occasionally struggles with feeling like “I’m sinning or disappointing God” by embracing my homosexuality?”
  • “I exist in a family who does not believe that one can be homosexual and not be ‘living in sin’. How are you able to reconcile your religious beliefs with who you know yourself to be?”
  • “What do you say to those that condemn you being gay?”
  • “What does God/the Bible actually have to say about being gay?”
  • “I'm getting ready to move and want to find a church that is lgbtqia+ friendly. I've found in searching in my current area that dome churches will say they are affirming, but once I've gone once or twice they try to convert you back to heterosexuality in very backhanded and sneaky ways. I guess my question is, how can I go about finding a church that will respect me as a person and love all of me? It has definitely caused me to question my faith.”
  • “My ex’s family believe that homosexuality is not how God made us, but rather that it is a sin. How can I respond to this?”
  • “What does God say about pleasure and sensuality?”
  • Why we need to ask ourselves, “...Who benefits from this system?” 
  • Wanna support our “Coming Out Late” podcast? Then please consider buying Robin a “virtual” coffee as a sign of your appreciation. Simply go to: https://www.buymeacoffee.com/RobinDouglass



Links to resources:

RESOURCES MENTIONED in PART 1 & 2 Episodes:

Pamela Lightsey, Our Lives Matter: A Womanist Queer Theology

Wil Gafney, Link to her Blog and to her Womanist Midrash; https://www.wilgafney.com/


Sonya Renee Taylor, Best-selling author, world-renowned activist, thought leader on racial justice, body liberation and transformational change, as well as International artist, Sonya Renee Taylor:
https://www.sonyareneetaylor.com/the-body-is-not-an-apology

A great read and interesting criticism of “biblical marriage.”https://www.patheos.com/blogs/keithgiles/2023/02/same-sex-love-celebrated-in-the-bible/


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