In this intimate solo episode, I slow it all the way down and tap in with y’all—no guests, just me and the mic, reflecting on where I am right now.

I open up about the realness searching for your identity mid 30's—how it humbles you and grounds you in ways you never imagined. I talk about how I’ve been feeling as a mom lately, and what it’s teaching me about identity and presence.

Then I shift gears into something that’s been sitting heavy on my spirit—people-pleasing. I get real about the ways I’ve shown up in past relationships, the masks I wore, and how I’m finally seeing the difference between making it work and forcing it to fit. I also share what it feels like to revisit those relationships in my mind, wondering if I could’ve done something different... even when I know deep down it was toxic.

This one’s for anyone who's learning to stop abandoning themselves for the comfort of others.
For anyone still untangling love from survival.
For the healers who are still healing.

Let’s check in—together.

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