In this soul-stirring episode, we sit down with Erin LCPC,LPC from Maryland who keeps it real about what it actually takes to find the right therapist.
Spoiler alert: you gotta date around! Just like in relationships, it takes a few tries to find someone who truly gets you — your story, your culture, your neurotype, your everything.
Our guest doesn’t just talk the talk. They show up boldly for the LGBTQIA+ community, BIPOC folks, and Neurodivergent clients by creating affirming spaces where nuance, safety, and truth can live. We unpack what that advocacy looks like in the therapy room and in the world beyond.
We also pull back the curtain on their journey to becoming a therapist — the twists, turns, and hard-earned lessons.
What You’ll Hear in This Episode:
- Why “dating your therapist” is a must for your mental health journey
- How this LCPC creates space for marginalized voices in therapy
- The beauty of serving LGBTQIA+, BIPOC, and Neurodivergent clients
- Personal stories from the path to becoming a licensed therapist
- Encouragement for future clinicians
Things to Remember:
- Therapy ain’t one-size-fits-all. You have every right to shop around until it feels right.
- Being a safe space isn’t just about words — it’s about embodiment, humility, and deep listening.
- You don’t have to shrink yourself to sit in the therapist’s chair or lay on the couch.
Links & Resources:
Guest: Erin Nkele founder of Melanated Wellness LLC
Email: [email protected]
Find a therapist who gets you:
- Psychology Today
- Therapy for Black Girls
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