Luke, my amazing partner, joins me again for this episode.

A quote from the Instagram @mindfulmft caught my eye and I wanted to talk about it with Luke, because I know that we are on the same level with this.

The quote is from Harville Hendrix, couple's therapist and author, and it states: "The unconscious purpose of marriage is to finish childhood" - but let's expand the word marriage into any intimate relationships you may have.

Basically, any shit you are carrying from the past is going to come up in your current and future relationships. You have two choices - relive the same patterns again OR learn from them and "close the loop", growing and learning in the process.

We share some of the stuff that has come up for us in our current relationship and what we have done/are doing to work through that.

I have definitely learnt from my past and am committed to not bringing my old shit into Luke and I's world, when it comes up, I jump on it straight away...It's fucking hard, but we need to address our wounded selves fully before we can commit to loving someone else!

It all starts with love my friends, so love yourself and you can't go wrong.

Thankyou for listening, I love you!

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Cindra xox