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In today’s solo episode, I’m diving into one of the most underrated relationship skills out there: communication. Whether it’s with a partner, a friend, or someone you’re just getting to know, the way we talk — and how we talk — can make the difference between connection and confusion.I’m not showing up as an expert today. I’m showing up as someone who is actively trying to improve in this area, who has made mistakes, learned from them, and is still learning.This episode is about slowing down, tuning in, and understanding the human being in front of you… beyond the words they say.We’ll explore why communication breaks down, how unspoken boundaries turn into resentment, and how reading intentions instead of reacting only to words can shift an entire conversation. I share examples of common relationship conflicts — everything from “you never help around the house” to “you keep cancelling plans” — and what might really be happening underneath the surface.We’ll also talk about:✨ Why tone matters more than we realize✨ Why naming your needs isn’t selfish — it’s responsible✨ Simple phrases that make hard conversations easier✨ How to express boundaries without guilt✨ How to stay curious instead of defensive✨ What research from places like The Gottman Institute can teach us about conflictIf you’ve ever struggled to speak up, avoided conflict to “keep the peace,” or felt misunderstood even when you said all the right words, this episode will give you something to reflect on — and hopefully something to try.If this episode resonated with you, share it with someone you care about. Sometimes one honest conversation can change the direction of a relationship.Thanks for watching!🎙️ If you like this episode, please like it and share it.🎙️ Don’t forget to subscribe!Website: https://www.filledcups.com/
By Fernanda BrasileiroIn today’s solo episode, I’m diving into one of the most underrated relationship skills out there: communication. Whether it’s with a partner, a friend, or someone you’re just getting to know, the way we talk — and how we talk — can make the difference between connection and confusion.I’m not showing up as an expert today. I’m showing up as someone who is actively trying to improve in this area, who has made mistakes, learned from them, and is still learning.This episode is about slowing down, tuning in, and understanding the human being in front of you… beyond the words they say.We’ll explore why communication breaks down, how unspoken boundaries turn into resentment, and how reading intentions instead of reacting only to words can shift an entire conversation. I share examples of common relationship conflicts — everything from “you never help around the house” to “you keep cancelling plans” — and what might really be happening underneath the surface.We’ll also talk about:✨ Why tone matters more than we realize✨ Why naming your needs isn’t selfish — it’s responsible✨ Simple phrases that make hard conversations easier✨ How to express boundaries without guilt✨ How to stay curious instead of defensive✨ What research from places like The Gottman Institute can teach us about conflictIf you’ve ever struggled to speak up, avoided conflict to “keep the peace,” or felt misunderstood even when you said all the right words, this episode will give you something to reflect on — and hopefully something to try.If this episode resonated with you, share it with someone you care about. Sometimes one honest conversation can change the direction of a relationship.Thanks for watching!🎙️ If you like this episode, please like it and share it.🎙️ Don’t forget to subscribe!Website: https://www.filledcups.com/