In this heartfelt episode of Late to the Party, Allie welcomes Victoria, a cult survivor and former youth leader, who shares her journey of navigating religious trauma, purity culture, and finding her bisexual identity. The conversation delves into Victoria's upbringing in the Institute of Basic Life Principles (IBLP), her deep involvement in purity culture, and her eventual deconstruction of faith. Victoria talks about the challenges and revelations she encountered, the critical role of community, and the importance of giving oneself grace. Emphasizing the fluidity of faith and sexuality, Victoria's story is a testament to the resilience of the human spirit.

00:00 Introduction and Personal Update

01:21 Welcoming Victoria

02:20 Victoria's Early Life in a Cult

04:36 Family Dynamics and Leaving the Cult

05:39 Homeschooling and Education Challenges

27:48 Community and Social Interactions

31:05 The Impact of Evangelicalism on Society

32:02 Church Split and Its Aftermath

34:26 Transition to a Mega Church

35:24 Struggles with Purity Culture

38:36 Questioning and Rebellion

47:41 Exploring Sexual Ethics

01:00:18 College Life and Deconstruction

01:05:46 Leaving Academia and Finding Grace

01:07:13 Deconstructing Faith and Sexuality

01:07:45 A New Church Experience

01:09:28 Embracing Bisexuality

01:16:53 Purity Culture and Queer Identity

01:19:36 Redefining Spirituality and Faith

01:27:18 Healing and Setting Boundaries

01:34:13 Future Plans and Final Thoughts