What happens when the “money talk” in marriage goes sideways—like, full-on flop-to-the-floor dramatic? In this candid and often hilarious episode, your favorite husband-wife duo unpacks the deep emotional layers tied to money in relationships. From childhood money stories to budgeting meltdowns (yes, there was floor-throwing), they get real about how financial conversations became less contentious and more connective over the years.

This isn’t a budget spreadsheet how-to—this is the emotional psychology of how couples navigate money, power, autonomy, and values. You’ll hear about their first budgeting disaster, secret spending (ahem, Kohl's card), revenge buying, and ultimately how they found peace through shared vision, regular money dates, and understanding each other’s financial triggers.

What You’ll Learn:

• Why 57% of divorces link back to money—and what you can do to avoid becoming that stat
• How to identify and reframe your childhood money stories
• The difference between budgeting for control vs. budgeting for connection
• What “revenge spending” looks like and why it’s more common than you think
• How to use “green light, yellow light, red light” decisions to prevent resentment
• How to start having safe, emotionally intelligent money talks with your partner

Key Takeaways:

Money isn’t just about dollars—it's about emotional safety and autonomy

Consistent, low-stress money check-ins can be intimacy-building

Sharing a financial vision helps couples stop fighting and start dreaming

Timestamps:

00:01 – Why money is the #2 reason for divorce

03:00 – The first budgeting fight (feat. a dramatic floor dive)

10:00 – How childhood shaped their views on money and control

16:30 – Spending vs. saving vs. shared vision

25:00 – Secret spending, autonomy, and “beauty budgets”

34:00 – Revenge spending (and how they caught themselves)

39:00 – Using the green-yellow-red light system for decisions

44:00 – How they made budgeting fun with sushi and values alignment

49:00 – This week’s Happy Well Homework challenge

Thanks for listening! Reminder: there are still tickets available for the Breakthrough Live Summit happening this Friday, May 16th. Kristen and Scott will guide participants through exercises designed to create breakthrough, clarity, and forward momentum. Find out more and grab your ticket here.