Super excited to present this episode to you, as it’s something we have been sinking our teeth into over the last few months! Priestess Vanessa joins us on the podcast to talk all things Dominant and Subordinate relationships.

Before you go running for the hills like AHHHH this is not for me, take a breath and keep listening. Vanessa is a wealth of knowledge on D&S relationships and shares some epic and engaging stories about her experiences and her work, you’ll want to lean in, trust us.

Priestess Vanessa has been working in the field of sexuality for over two decades and more recently, has felt called to direct her work towards the healing aspects of kink, BDSM and feminine submission.

This model allows room for triggers and unhealthy patterns to be witnessed and worked through. It encourages the use of ritual, sound, breath and emotion to be able to help the receiver to work through their struggle and reconnect with themselves in an empowered place of surrender rewriting the stories around their traumas/wounds to release fear and allow them to heal.

We get into this and so much more in this episode! The basics of a D&S relationship and how to start playing with these roles if you are interested, what this can bring into your world and the practicality of doing this at home.

We touch on kink and BDSM, our recent foray into this world and the dos and don’ts if you want to start digging into these realms.

Such a fun, potent and informative chat with Vanessa, we are going to have her on again soon to go a little deeper into this stuff. In the meantime, go and follow her at @yespriestess on Insta and see the links in her bio for more on what she does and how to work with her!

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