On this week’s episode Lulu and Laura are talking about the Black Cat & Golden Retriever Relationship “Theory.”  We’ll explore what the Black Cat Golden Retriever Theory is, who we are in our relationship experiences, and what these catchy terms mean for modern dating.

Black Cat & Golden Retriever Relationship “Theory refers to a relationship dynamic (seemingly in only heterosexual couples?) where in order for the relationship to be healthy and to last, the the woman is the Black Cat and the man is the Golden Retriever. 

Black Cat energy is being aloof, mysterious, reserved, alluring, and hard to catch, 

Golden Retriever energy is about being being the chaser, doing anything for your partner, loyal, etc

So who are you in your relationships? Do you think this theory holds up?

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Resources:

Anna Kristina (Discusses Vanessa Hugens and Austen Butler)

https://www.tiktok.com/t/ZPRwAKUk2/

Shadesnotes https://www.tiktok.com/t/ZPRwDJsQ2/

Olga

https://www.tiktok.com/t/ZPRwAth6t/

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Music Attribution

Title: Back in the 80s

Author: HoliznaCC0/ https://freemusicarchive.org/music/holiznacc0/

Source: Free Music Archive / https://freemusicarchive.org/music/holiznacc0/power-pop/back-in-the-80s/