“The Rent to live in Reality is High”   One of my friends said this to me years ago…and it never stuck until now.   The fact is it is so easy to stay in a distorted, anxious/avoidant attachment version of reality when dating  We must intentionally rewire our brains for healthy love.   Inside of this episode:   I teach what Reality Testing is, and WHY you need it  I explain in three simple steps how to do reality testing  I share how this can dramatically improve your dating life   You don’t want to miss this episode! It’s short but value-packed    If you’ve been loving this dating series, and are ready to effortlessly attract the love of your life, then you need the Empowered.Secure.Loved Program!   The Empowered.Secure.Loved. Program has everything you need to embody the securely attached woman and create a healthy passionate relationship.   Apply to the Empowered.Secure.Loved Program Here:    Click Here to Apply

EP 317: How to Practice Reality Testing: My Favorite Cognitive Behavioral Therapy Coping Skill

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APPLY TO THE E.S.L. PROGRAM HERE: Click Here to Apply REGISTER FOR THE SO OVER IT MASTERCLASS HERE:  www.drmorgancoaching.com/overit  You are in for a special treat with today’s episode!!  
 I was planning to record an episode on today’s topic, dating in the wild, and then on one of my recent client group calls, an amazing client of mine shared her take on meeting people in real life. (that’s right, NO DATING APPS REQUIRED)  
 Inside of today’s episode my client Kayla and I dive into:  
How to meet people in real life (it’s easier than you think) The Power of Releasing Repetition Compulsion How to kindly say you’re not interested in dating someone when its not a match 

 If Kayla’s story inspired you, I want to invite you to join us inside of the Empowered.Secure.Loved. Relationship Program! 
 Introducing our May Empowered.Secure.Loved. Program:

EP 443: Dating in the Wild: How to Meet People in Real Life

APPLY TO THE E.S.L. PROGRAM HERE: Click Here to Apply REGISTER FOR THE SO OVER IT MASTERCLASS HERE:  www.drmorgancoaching.com/overit  
 You’re gonna love this episode!  
 Inside this episode I discuss how:  
Timeline pressure can lead to feelings of fear, self-doubt, and comparison.Anxiously attached individuals may struggle to notice red and yellow flags in dating due to the fear of being alone.Avoidantly attached individuals may distance themselves further when faced with timeline pressure, fearing they won't meet expectations.Taking ownership of one's love life and committing to making progress can lead to immediate improvements in mental health.Releasing control of the how and timeline while maintaining clarity on desired outcomes allows for surrender and openness to love.
If you’re ready to heal your attachment style so that you can attract the emotionally available dream partner you’ve always wanted, you are going to want to take advantage of this- Introducing our May Empowered.Secure.Loved. Program:

EP 442: Overcome Relationship Timeline Pressure & Reset to a Healthy Dating Mindset

APPLY TO THE E.S.L. PROGRAM HERE: Click Here to Apply REGISTER FOR THE SO OVER IT MASTERCLASS HERE:  www.drmorgancoaching.com/overit  In this episode I am giving you the TEN things I wish I had known earlier about securely attached relationships  
 You are gonna love this HONEST list that is packed with valuable relationship insights that will help you understand what a secure relationship is like even if you have never been in one before.  
 Inside of this episode I discuss:  
How the early stages of dating should ACTUALLY feel in a secure relationship The key to securely attached conflict How securely attached sex is different from sex in insecure relationships. 

 Aaaaaaand so much more!  
 You deserve to prioritize your HEALING and trade situationship summer for a securely attached summer.  
 Take the first step today on your healing journey by applying to the Empowered.Secure.Loved. Program  
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EP 441: 10 Things You Need to Know About Securely Attached Relationships

This episode is SO POWERFUL & INSPIRING!  Empowered.Secure.Loved.Program graduate,  Yasmin vulnerably shares how her childhood attachment wounds have impacted her adult relationships.  Inside of this episode:  
Yasmin shares vulnerably about her journey through the Empowered.Secure.Loved. Program including her biggest breakthroughs We discuss how the intellectual knowing is so different from emotional knowing (she shares about an unconscious wound she needed to release) We discuss the differences between securely attached dating and dating with insecure attachment styles 

 Aaaand so much more!  
 If you related to Yasmin’s story, and you are ready for your own journey to secure attachment now is the time to take action. Introducing our May Empowered.Secure.Loved. Program:

EP 440: Breaking Free from the Past & Becoming Securely Attached with Special Guest Yasmin

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EP 317: How to Practice Reality Testing: My Favorite Cognitive Behavioral Therapy Coping Skill

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