The Light is the most powerful force in the universe. Darkness/ density/ negativity/ ego and fear creates and operates from aggression. Whereas your Divine Light only needs to assert itself because it simply is. Aggression is usually fueled by emotion, whereas assertion can only happen from a place of clarity and authentic empowerment. Learn to take the steps to turn reaction/ aggression/ passive aggression - into self-worth/ self-respect and self-love, which is the Light and will always assert itself powerfully.