In this episode, I share my personal stories of the Dry Spell I've been in for the past 9 months or so.  

• I went through a literal dry spell of no sex for 9 months.
• I've been on very few dates.
• My phone has been silent with rarely any flirty messages from anyone and very little conversing with men.
• When you're  separated or newly divorced, everyone advises you to "be alone for awhile".  It's common for people to say "I'm working on me right now".  In all honesty though, most people jump right into a relationship or date like crazy.

I've been ALONE for awhile now.  It is only now, after 2 years of leaving my marriage that I "get it".  I'm happy in my life just the way it is and without the excitement of dating, flirting, or romance.  I'm busy with my daughter, my work, my passion projects, and spending time with friends and family.  I am fulfilled.  While I always remain optimistic that I'll fall in love one day, I am truly happy by myself... BECAUSE I'm not really by myself.  I'm surrounded by people who love me.  Also, I'm SUPER  busy chasing my dreams over here....

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