Command Your Presence

EP23: From scout camp to Hollywood: How Shane learned to command any room


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Confidence isn't something you're born with; it's something you build, one uncomfortable moment at a time.

Welcome to Command Your Presence Podcast with Jacinda! In this episode, she reconnects with long-time creative friend and filmmaker Shane, whose journey from Scout Camp leader to Creative Director reveals powerful lessons on confidence, leadership, and authentic communication.

Shane shares how his early experiences commanding a noisy dining hall of 400 campers taught him to project his voice, connect with an audience, and earn respect. Those lessons would later shape his success in film and creative production. Together, Jacinda and Shane explore what it really means to "read the room," how to balance empathy with authority, and why the best leaders are also great listeners.

Whether you're a speaker, creator, or entrepreneur, this conversation will inspire you to step up, take space, and own your voice wherever you are.

Episode Highlights:

01:40 Who is Shane beyond his job title? 03:00 The moment he first learned to command presence 05:40 From camp counselor to confident communicator 09:00 The power of adapting your communication style 13:20 Lessons from film school and working in production 17:30 Big-budget sets vs. indie projects: what fuels creativity 20:00 Finding your best "room" as a speaker or performer 22:00 Why great speakers are great listeners

25:00 The difference between being a great performer and a great communicator 27:00 How to practice your voice and build presence through repetition 29:00 Reframing wins and losses into wins and lessons 31:00 Shane's high-pressure story from a live film festival 35:00 Staying calm and taking control when things go wrong 37:00 How to zoom out and focus on the bigger picture under pressure 39:00 Connecting the dots between different skill sets and experiences 40:00 Quick-fire lessons on public speaking and success 42:00 The importance of listening to your head, heart, and gut

🎧 Listen now and discover how to command your presence with confidence, empathy, and purpose.

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Command Your PresenceBy Jacinda Patty