Another victim shaming tool - the social media realm on happiness and all the "experts" with simplistic comments that can deter a struggling victim from feeling as if they do not fit in. 

I don't know about , but I get tired with the overwhelming messages out there telling me I need to be happy, should be happy, if I am happy then ...if Im not happy then...its my fault.  Happiness is just part of the emotional landscape potential  for human beings which is directly impacted by environments and no amount of sugar coating will make someone happy in a terrible situation.  I include a quote on Happiness and Action .  Its my formula - for my life - not to pursue happiness as defined by the culture or history books, but to do things that resonant with my nature - born happy like most children, and dealing with the reality of adulthood.  Sometimes happy and sometimes not. 

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