"Codependency is one of the hardest things to break even professionally."

One of the things that comes up a lot when I am coaching is an admission of feeling responsible for other people's feelings. And that can sneak right in no matter which Enneagram Type you are.

But allowing that into any relationship can create an element of inauthenticity and, worse, codependency.

And when you feel it is your responsibility to dictate how other people feel about something, you are creating an energy tourniquet that will block everything else that is good in your relationship.

So how can you be sure you are walking in compassion for somebody who's struggling without swerving into codependency?

Today on The Leadership Formula, I discuss how the Enneagram can help you discover what's at the root of your feelings of responsibility for other people's happiness (even your children.)

Listen in as I explain why it's vital to check your motives in your relationships to make sure you're not settling for temporary harmony that could lead to emotional bankruptcy. Plus, a sneak peek into what's coming from Tracy O'Malley.com in 2023.

My offerings will change in 2023, but there is still time to ensure you have the tools to step into your soul's calling. Here's where you can discover my newly developed Enneagram Type Blueprint to stay on track or book your Enneagram Kickstart Session.

What You Will Learn

How the Enneagram helps you understand what's at the root of your feeling of responsibility for other people's happiness
The fine line that so many of you are operating in that you aren't even aware of
The difference between compassion and codependency
Why feeling responsible for someone else's feelings is a one-way ticket to resentment
Why stepping out of codependency can lead to the ending of a relationship
Why feeling responsible for other's feelings leads to judgment
How to set the right boundaries to avoid falling into a codependent pattern in your relationships

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