In this episode, I share stories from Christmases past as a single person.  I begin with a story from when I was newly separated from my daughter's dad.  I felt very much like an outsider as Lanie and I were gathered with a group of friends to go on a Christmas lights tour of our neighborhood.  I couldn't believe I was going through a divorce.  Although we were with a wonderful group of supportive friends, I felt alone.
Our second Christmas was worse because I was away for Pharmaceutical Rep training for the the entire Christmas season. 
Our third Christmas was different because we shared Christmas morning with my boyfriend and his children.  We broke up on the 26th.
Although these early Christmases sucked for the most part. Lanie and I were b building our Christmas traditions.  There was a lot of baking, ice skating, visiting family and friends, and church.
I also share stories from our recent Christmases.  
After an argument with my ex over Christmas decorations during my separation from my second husband, Lanie and I took matters into our own hands.  We bought a new Christmas tree and decorations.  After the stress and arguing, I learned that it is sometimes better to not sweat the small stuff - especially at Christmas. 
Now, all is calm, all is bright.  I never could've imagined the peaceful life Lanie and I share now. We've vacationed the past couple of years just before Christmas.  We live in a new house and are surrounded by  an amazing group of friends and family. 
This life didn't just happen by chance though. My daughter and I have chosen who we share life with carefully.  We have focused on health and happiness.  
It is my hope that you can focus on providing a peaceful and joyous Christmas with your kids despite any drama with your ex or personal struggles you are feeling.  By building traditions with your children, you are gifting them with stability and memories that will last a lifetime.  
Merry Christmas to my sweet and supportive podcast family!

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