Black Girl From Brick City

EP4: Getting Through a Bad Breakup

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One thing about breakups, they ain’t easy ok?

  • Everyone knows ya together, so you feel like you owe people explanations as to why the relationship didn’t work
  • You have to disconnect yourself from a person you once shared so much with
  • You feel like you wasted so much time, was all of that work really for nothing?
  • You still feel like there is something you can do to make the relationship work, despite all of the red flags

    • But I’ve learned a few things from my breakups..

    • Grieve. 
    • It’s not the end of the world, look at it as a new beginning 
    • Choose forgiveness, not bitterness 
    • Remember your WHY.

      • Things I learned NOT to do after a breakup..

      1. Don’t just hop into another serious relationship
      2. Don’t vent to social media
      3. Don’t bad mouth your ex to people

        4. Focus on these things after a breakup..

        1. You. 
        2. Your business. 
        3. New experiences

          4. Two beautiful quotes by Maya Angelou:

          You may not control all the events that happen to you, but you can decide not to be reduced by them.

          Have enough courage to trust love one more time and always one more time


          Thank you for listening! I appreciate it. Let's learn & grow together #aycegang xoxoxo

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          Black Girl From Brick CityBy Ayce