Black Girl From Brick City

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  • EP 9: Girl, It’s ok to rest.. like really rest!

    Rest. 

    How many of us make ourselves feel guilty just for taking a break and discharging to recharge? How many of us make ourselves feel bad for missing events to rest? I'll raise my hand! We must relearn the importance of rest and unlearn the system of being on go and accessible 24/7 - it ain't it! 

    Also, thank you to everyone who has been rocking with me since episode 1! I really appreciate you! 

    As we approach Season 2, Black Girl From Brick City is elevating to a new level! Youtube, Video Pods, and more. So excited! xoxo thanks again for the support. We working & resting. Period. 

     Link to research: Click Here - 10 Things That Happen to Your Body When You Lose Sleep

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    18 min
  • EP8: The Four Components of Emotional Intelligence

    What is emotional intelligence? 

    I learned about this term in college, shout out to Professor Sandra Bodin-Lerner

    Emotional Intelligence is made up of 4 components: 

    • Self Awareness: slow down, journaling, etc
    • Self Management: staying in control/clear idea of the lines you’ll never cross  
    • Relationship Management: able to manage multiple relationships in healthy ways
    • 
Social Awareness: able to put yourself in other people’s shoes 
    • 2 more episodes until Season 1 is over! Thank you guys so much for the support, until next time xoxox

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      25 min
    • EP7:Taking accountability: What if maybe, just maybe, it’s you?

      Accountability can be uncomfortable because it forces you to look at what you did wrong instead of someone else! 

      Yes, it can be hard, but when you get accustomed to taking ownership of your actions, life will go smoother  

      When you learn to hold yourself accountable, you: 

      • Handle situations more maturely  
      • Feel better about past mistakes  
      • Less drama and more safe spaces 
      • More aware of how your bad behaviors make others feel  T
      • Thank you for listening to this week's episode, until next time xoxoxo

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        35 min
      • EP6: 5 Ways to Start Your Fitness Journey

        Are you planning on starting your fitness journey but feel a little bit overwhelmed? Or maybe you just don’t know where to start...


        Here are 5 ways I started my fitness journey: 

        • Start home workouts, gradually work your way up to the gym 
        • Pace yourself + be patient with results 
        • Don't be afraid to invest in yourself (workout gear, better food, etc)
        • Don't compare or body shame 
        • Join an accountability group or get a workout partner 
        • Thank you for listening and I hope you are on or about to start your journey to a better, healthier you! You got this xoxox


          Definitions: 

          Body dysmorphic disorder is a mental health disorder in which you can't stop thinking about one or more perceived defects or flaws in your appearance — a flaw that appears minor or can't be seen by others. But you may feel so embarrassed, ashamed, and anxious that you may avoid many social situations


          Video from Breeny Lee about body dysmorphia: https://youtu.be/sAWr4nZwgVU


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          35 min
        • EP5: Haitian Refugees Treated Like Criminals by White Supremacists

          I was completely disturbed when I logged into Instagram and saw images and videos of Border Patrol Agents on horsebacks, whipping and chasing Haitian Refugees into the Rio Grande River in Del Rio, Texas. 

          Instead of being met with aid and assistance, they were met with aggression and hate. 

          In this episode, I talk about the disturbing history of America and how Haitians deserve more respect! #1804 

          It seems America only helps when it benefits them. Afghanistan Refugees were approved to come to America to seek asylum, yet Haitians families were deported by the thousands on back-to-back flights with no care in the world for their safety or well-being. 

          Also - when it comes to people of color in this country, it seems we are always met with violence first, questions later. 

          Quite frankly, the entire history of White Supremacy in America has always been violent, especially towards people of color. 

          I am angry. I am disappointed in the Biden Administration & enough is enough. 

          Prayers up for all the refugees seeking a better life for their families, it could've been me. 


          Links to Articles used for research: 

          https://www.nbcrightnow.com/news/world-relief-tri-cities-preparing-for-up-to-100-afghan-refugees/article_e46e4f7c-1cc2-11ec-a336-9b4914ea166a.html

          https://nypost.com/2021/09/20/haitian-deportees-arrive-back-in-home-country/

          https://luzcollective.com/border-patrol-agents-violently-remove-haitians-with-horses-and-whips-at-the-texas-border/

          https://ustr.gov/countries-regions/americas/haiti

          https://www.jstor.org/stable/30031083

          Thank you for tuning into another episode, I really enjoy talking & learning w/ you xoxox

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          34 min
        • EP4: Getting Through a Bad Breakup

          One thing about breakups, they ain’t easy ok?

          • Everyone knows ya together, so you feel like you owe people explanations as to why the relationship didn’t work
          • You have to disconnect yourself from a person you once shared so much with
          • You feel like you wasted so much time, was all of that work really for nothing?
          • You still feel like there is something you can do to make the relationship work, despite all of the red flags
          • But I’ve learned a few things from my breakups..

            • Grieve. 
            • It’s not the end of the world, look at it as a new beginning 
            • Choose forgiveness, not bitterness 
            • Remember your WHY.
            • Things I learned NOT to do after a breakup..

              1. Don’t just hop into another serious relationship
              2. Don’t vent to social media
              3. Don’t bad mouth your ex to people
              4. Focus on these things after a breakup..

                1. You. 
                2. Your business. 
                3. New experiences
                4. Two beautiful quotes by Maya Angelou:

                  You may not control all the events that happen to you, but you can decide not to be reduced by them.

                  Have enough courage to trust love one more time and always one more time


                  Thank you for listening! I appreciate it. Let's learn & grow together #aycegang xoxoxo

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                  32 min
                5. EP3: Overcoming Anxiety During a Pandemic

                  Will covid change the course of networking and social life forever? Who knows! 

                  Here are some things I've implemented into my life to help with my anxiety: 

                  • Reading self-help books on how to manage stress and emotions 
                  • Developed stronger prayer life 
                  • Planning on going to therapy 
                  • Ask yourself these questions: 

                    • What makes me feel really calm? 
                    • What makes me feel good about myself and confident about my decisions? 
                    • What makes me feel truly happy? 
                    • Scriptures to help combat my anxiety attacks:  

                      • Tehillim (Psalms) 55:22 TS2009 “Cast your burden on יהוה, And let Him sustain you; He never allows the righteous to be shaken.”  
                      • Romans 15:13 KJV "Now the God of hope fill you with all joy and peace in believing, that ye may abound in hope, through the power of the Holy Ghost.” 
                      • Romiyim (Romans) 8:6 TS2009 "For the mind of the flesh is death, but the mind of the Spirit is life and peace.” Psalm 16:8 KJV "I have set the LORD always before me: Because he is at my right hand, I shall not be moved.” 

                      • Thank you for listening, I appreciate growing and learning with you xoxox

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                        31 min
                      • EP2: 5 Struggles of an Independent Artist

                        So let's face it, my fellow artist, most people only see the end of a creative goal or project and never realize the emotional toll it takes on an artist to even share their gifts.   I'm grateful for all the blessings my gift has granted me, as I'm sure every creative is. 

                        Yet, in the past, I did struggle with a few things that made it harder to focus just the creative aspect of things: 

                        • Financial issues  
                        • Creative blockages/ Lack of inspo  
                        • Real-life vs social media/ Imposter syndrome  
                        • Negative comments / Haters 
                        • Comparing yourself to others  
                        • Although this episode talks about the struggle, s/o to my creative baddies using life as fuel for your passion! Keep grinding & never stop!

                          Thank you for listening, I appreciate it! Let's learn & grow together! #aycegang xoxox

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                          41 min
                        • EP1: Breaking Generational Curses

                          In this episode, we dive into the definition of a generational curse, how to identify them, and some tips on how to overcome them.  

                          What is a generational curse? [3:01]  

                          Three ways to identify you’re going through a generational curse: [4:54] 

                          How to work on overcoming a generational curse? [12:26] 

                          Positive Affirmations: [23:30] 

                          Thank you for listening! I appreciate it. Let's grow & learn together! #aycegang xoxox

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                          27 min

                        About Black Girl From Brick City

                        From the publisher's feed

                        Hey! My name is AYCE (pronounced ace) and I’m a black girl from Brick City (Newark,NJ) & I created this podcast to give my personal opinion on the things I care about. We all have things we have…