Command Your Presence

EP6: How to Sound Confident When You Speak


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🧠 Did you know? According to a study by UCLA, only 7% of communication is based on the actual words we say. 38% is vocal tone, and the remaining 55% is body language. That means your voice alone carries over five times more weight than your words when it comes to how you're perceived.

Let that sink in.

If you’ve ever shared an idea in a meeting, on stage, or even in a casual conversation—only to feel unheard or brushed aside—this episode is for you. The way your voice sounds has the power to shift how seriously people take you.

In this episode, we’ll break down:

  • The 3 qualities of a confident voice: clarity, steadiness, and resonance
  • Vocal habits that undermine your authority (hello, vocal fry and rising intonation)
  • Key techniques to strengthen your voice: from pacing and tone to breath control and volume
  • Why true vocal confidence starts within—and how health, mindset, and preparation all play a role
  • A behind-the-scenes look at how I overcame shaky voice moments and the truth about preparation (spoiler: a one-hour keynote = 600 hours of practice!)

🎧 Whether you're prepping for a big presentation, leading a team meeting, or just want to sound more self-assured in everyday conversations, this episode is packed with practical tips and real talk to help you sound (and feel) like the most powerful version of yourself.

✨ Try this today: Pick a short paragraph and record yourself reading it with clarity, steady pacing, and tonal variety. Then listen back. You might be surprised by how much you’re capable of.

📲 Let’s take this further Share your practice or reflections with me on Instagram @commandyourpresence and tag me—I’d love to hear how you're showing up with more confidence this week.

👉 Don’t forget to subscribe and leave a review if you’re enjoying these episodes. And next week, we’re diving into body language—yes, even if you're 5'1" like me. 😉 Stay tuned!

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Command Your PresenceBy Jacinda Patty