Decoding Confidence

EP6: Integrity at Work: How Values-Led Leadership Builds Real Confidence


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What does confidence really look like at work?

In this episode, Advita Patel explores one of the most overlooked habits of confident leadership: integrity.

Confidence isn’t about bravado, visibility or being the loudest voice in the room. It’s built quietly through alignment—between what you believe, what you say and how you act. When those drift apart, self-trust erodes. When they stay aligned, confidence compounds.

This episode dives into how integrity shows up in everyday leadership decisions, why small compromises matter more than we realise, and how values-led choices build long-term credibility, trust and self-esteem.

Through real coaching stories and practical reflection tools, Advita shares how leaders can practice “micro-integrity moments” even under pressure—and why perfection isn’t the goal, consistency is.

If you’re navigating complex decisions, leadership tension or a quiet wobble in self-belief, this episode will help you reconnect with your values and lead with grounded confidence.

Key Topics Covered
  • What confidence really means in the workplace

  • The seven core habits of confident leaders

  • Why integrity is foundational to trust and credibility

  • How misalignment between values and behaviour erodes confidence

  • Cognitive dissonance and the cost of small compromises

  • Practising micro-integrity in everyday leadership moments

  • Coaching stories from real clients navigating values tension

  • Weekly values check-ins and honest self-reflection

  • Why confident leadership is about alignment, not perfection

    Timestamps

    00:00 – Introduction to confident leadership and the seven habits

    00:30 – Redefining confidence at work
    01:11 – Integrity, trust and credibility
    02:13 – How values shape behaviour
    03:31 – Internal misalignment and confidence erosion
    04:58 – Values assessment insights with Jackie Le Fevre
    06:47 – Insatiable vs satiable values
    09:08 – Why values are often ignored in decision-making
    10:33 – Cognitive dissonance explained
    12:48 – Small compromises that quietly damage integrity
    13:42 – Coaching story: Mike’s journey back to alignment
    15:22 – Making values-led decisions under pressure
    17:12 – Signs your confidence is growing—or shrinking
    18:18 – Letting go of perfectionism
    20:07 – Practising micro-integrity moments
    25:30 – Action steps: values identification and weekly check-ins
    26:54 – Why integrity-led confidence lasts
    27:22 – What’s coming next: influence, energy and leadership growth

     

    Resources

    • Jackie Le Fevre – Mini Essence Values Assessment 

    • Brené Brown – Work on vulnerability, values and courageous leadership

    • The Leadership Challenge by Kouzes & Posner – Trust and leadership research 

      To find out more about Advita's work you can visit decodingconfidence.com. 

       

       

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      Decoding ConfidenceBy Advita Patel