In this episode of Faith and Feels, I sit down with Roy Kim, a former pastor turned certified sex addiction therapist, to discuss the crucial work of addressing sex and porn addiction within the church. Roy shares his expertise in leading individual therapy and group sessions for men, including pastors and church leaders, who are battling these hidden struggles.

We explore the realities of addiction, the stigma surrounding it in faith communities, and the hope for healing through accountability and intentional recovery. Roy also highlights the resources available on his website, newlegacycounseling.com, including a self-guided sobriety curriculum designed for those ready to take control of their journey to freedom.

Roy is also the host of two impactful podcasts:

• SA Speakeasy, which delves into topics of sex addiction recovery with expert interviews and practical insights.
• The Same Boat, a Christian podcast that openly addresses messy, real-life topics like divorce, abortion, and anger toward God, providing a safe space for honest conversations.

Whether you or someone you know is struggling with sex or porn addiction, this episode offers valuable insights, encouragement, and practical steps toward recovery. Don’t miss this powerful conversation!

Resources Mentioned:

• Roy Kim’s website: newlegacycounseling.com
• Church in Culture Podcast: How to Recover from a Dark Divorce and Aftermath
• Private Practice Skills YouTube: How to Find Your Specialty as a Therapist
• iitap.com

*Pixabay Music : "Exciting Day" and "Small Miracle"

Takeaways from This Episode:

• Roy Kim transitioned from being a pastor to a certified sex addiction therapist.
• There is a significant need for therapy focused on sex addiction within the church.
• Most of Roy's clients dealing with sex addiction are male.
• Empowerment in recovery often comes from acknowledging the need for hard work.
• Integrity in recovery means being whole and not fragmented.
• Love addiction shares similarities with sex addiction, focusing on false attachments.
• Self-guided sobriety work can provide structure and accountability for recovery.
• A target of 90 days of sobriety is crucial for brain healing and recovery.
• Guided meditation can help reset the brain and promote recovery.
• The church needs to create a safe space for discussing sexual addiction.

Sound Bites:

"The church needs to talk about it more."

"You have to put in a lot of work."

"Recovery work needs to be central in your life."

"Integrity comes from being whole in yourself."

"It's a great place to start."

"The brain can change its shape."

"You're not the only one."

"God works with us."