In this episode of Faith and Feels, I sit down with Rachel Pun and Becca Sun to talk about something that’s often overlooked in the church—biblical sexuality, vulnerability, and the power of open conversations. We reflect on a recent workshop I led that addressed sexual brokenness, addiction, and God’s design for connection, especially within the Asian American faith community.
Together, we share honestly about the challenges women face when it comes to talking about sexuality and shame, and why creating safe spaces for dialogue and support is so important. This conversation is about healing through community, courage, and vulnerability, and learning how to walk together toward freedom and wholeness in Christ.
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Recommended Resources:
"What if Porn was Actually Satanic? An Honest Conversation with Ray Ortlund"
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What Drives Women to Porn Infographic
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www.barna.com
www.harvestusa.org
Takeaways:
-The workshop focused on biblical sexuality and God's design.
-Participants discussed the growing trend of pornography in the church.
-Vulnerability and connection are essential for healing.
-The Faster Scale is a practical tool for identifying addiction patterns.
-Many women struggle with sexual addiction but feel isolated.
-Normalizing conversations about sexuality is crucial in the church.
-Statistics reveal a significant number of women view pornography.
-The opposite of addiction is connection, not sobriety.
-Creating safe spaces for dialogue can help break the cycle of shame. Community plays a crucial role in overcoming personal struggles.
-Isolation can exacerbate feelings of loneliness and temptation.
-Vulnerability is essential for building authentic connections.
-Sharing struggles can lead to healing and support from others.
-Connection is a powerful antidote to anxiety and loneliness.
-Building relationships takes effort and initiative.
-The church should address issues of sexuality openly and compassionately.
-Everyone has a desire for connection and acceptance.
It's important to remember one's identity in Christ amidst struggles.
Chapters:
00:00 Introduction to Faith in Fields Podcast
01:37 Exploring Biblical Sexuality Workshop
02:50 Guest Introductions and Context
08:42 Quotes on Sexuality and Vulnerability
11:40 Understanding the Deeper Issues Behind Sexual Struggles
16:50 The Importance of Community and Connection
20:01 Statistics on Pornography in the Church
23:52 Normalizing Conversations Around Sexuality
28:35 The Role of Church Leadership in Addressing Sexuality
34:45 Ongoing Conversations About Connection and Addiction
37:09 The Power of Community in Struggles
39:46 The Importance of Connection and Relationship
40:05 Opening Up: The Journey to Vulnerability
44:50 Navigating Temptations and Finding Support
51:12 Encouragement for the Struggling Listener
57:51 Building Connections and Overcoming Loneliness
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