Dr. Bell walks through the book of Ephesians, chapter 5. We are to be like children and reverence God. We our to walk in love toward one another in a manner that they can receive it. We are to reciprocate love.
Many leaders are leading while broken. They are teaching others from a bitter place in their heart. This action taints the word of God. The interpretation of every heart is not the same. Love cannot give love nor receive love.