Ephphatha..be open!

On this episode with me is Bridget Elesin.

We spoke about ‘Marriage; Enjoyed or Endured’

Bridget Elesin is a graduate of Edo State University , now Ambrose Alli University Ekpoma, Edo State where she studied Geography and Regional planning. She has a post graduate diploma in Public administration from the University of Benin , Benin City, Edo State and a diploma from the All Nations For Christ Bible Institute in Benin City, Edo State. 


Bridget is a certified marriage master mentor, Board member, Executive affiliate, plus mental health and addiction counsellor of the Institute of marriage and family Affairs. TIMFA USA. 


She is a John C.Maxwell Coach, Speaker, Teacher and trainer. She is also a family life Practitioner,  master practitioner of Neuro Linguistic Programming and a certified creativity coach and ambassador. 


Bridget Elesin is big on personal growth and helps individuals to take their own personal development journey. She also teaches the concept of team to families and organizations as well as self care, emotional and mental wellness.


Bridget is the author of several books and articles amongst which is the self love guide for the complete family, Fathers;  you must take the lead, Father- Mentor, leaving a worthy legacy for your sons and daughters,  21 days complete woman marriage challenge and BridgetlySpeaking. 


She is joyfully married to Tunde Elesin and makes her home in Lagos Nigeria with her three blessed and prophetic children. She and her husband are the publishers of the complete family magazine. 


She loves reading, speaking to encourage people to become a better version of self, content creation , travelling and meeting people.Short link attached:

Conversations where around the following:
🔑The 3Ps of Marriage
🔑How long must you endure in marriage?
🔑What can you endure in Marriage
🔑What stage should you seek help?
🔑What are enjoyment in Marriage?
🔑Key factors to enjoy Marriage
🔑Types of Intimacy in Marriage
🔑Importance of respect in your Marriage.
*Give presence not just Present (gifts)
*When you give in, you cash out 😀
🔑How can a Marriage at the hedge of divorce rebuild their relationship and many more….

This is your Ephphatha moment, don’t stay silence (confinement) if you are not enjoying marriage, seek help.

Don’t listen or watch this alone, grab a friend or family member with a popcorn or enjoy on buzzsprout during workout

On this episode with me is Tolu Osula.

We spoke about an amazing Topic: His Most Treasured Possession

Tolu Osula shared her peculiar story on how she was liberated from traumatic relationship seeking validation from people, low self esteem, wrong exposure, hated education, traumatic experiences, loneliness, feeling disvalued, sense of powerlessness into THE MOST TREASURED POSSESSION.

She took us through what LOVE means and how it can shape us to being and knowing you are a TREASURE.

Her story, her journey is outstanding.

Listen while driving or jogging on buzzsprout or grab a seat with friends and watch on YouTube with some popcorn and drinks, don’t forget to share, and send in your questions.

On this episode with me is Dorothy O’Dell, the amazing author of THE OVERCOMER and a Coach.

She was a certified people pleaser, overcame being bullied, low self esteem and surviving abusive relationship.

📌She shared how  the world could perceive you as not ‘normal’ affecting your self esteem, thinking worthy of nothing and allowing herself being in a relationship that does not suit her. 
📌She demonstrate  how resilient she can be by never giving up.
📌It took Dorothy years to figure this out stating 'Sometimes you don’t know how broken you are until someone voiced it out to you, because you needed to hear it to make the necessary adjustment/change'
📌Rising will help you not settle for less.
📌When you get knocked down, you just have to rise again.
📌We are overcomers through God by seeking help.
📌God will give you the people and tools you need for every situation, just obey His instructions.
📌We go through certain challenges so that we can hold others hands.....and many more.

Click the link for an amazing time, don't forget to share with friends and family.

Our very first episode for this year.

This episode is power packed, filled with so much laughter, deep thinking, valley and victory story with great insight. 

We started off with Unforgettable IJ’s love quote; To live intentionally, love fiercely, laugh freely, learn continually and lift always.

Gratitude is being thankful, positioning yourself to appreciate all things in and around you.

Should we only show gratitude when all is good and rosy?

Do you have to be happy to be grateful?

Can comparing yourself with other people push you in a place of confinement?

Unforgettable IJ was generous to share her powerful personal story, impactful and relatable.

This episode will liberate you from staying confined in a fix/challenges but soaring in gratitude will break the barrier.

This is your Ephphatha Moment, stay back, relax and enjoy.

This episode opens your heart to possibilities, reminding you of the things that matter, most expecially why you should move from your current state to a higher ground.

Everyone needs a move, someone who is stuck or someone who wants to remain relevant.

The most important question is "Where are you now" do you think that is the highest you would be or the lowest you can ever be.

Listen and carefully digest every word. Don't forget to like, share and follow us. Your review is important to us, don't forget to send them in @[email protected]. 

Soar high like an Eagle.

This episode is faya🔥🔥🔥loaded with gems,structured to propel you to action.

On this episode with me is Slyvester Jenkins III, An author of WINNING THE BATTLE WITHIN and a Mental health Advocate. 

We spoke on the topic:  Combat to Comeback
Overcoming by becoming.

🔥Combat is financial adversity, social, mental adversity on a daily basis with a way to win the battle. 
🔥He shared his story from returning from War to War at home, loss of love ones, emotional neglect, divorce etc.
🔥Combat does not discriminate nor need any permission.
🔥Reflecting can save your life from confinement.
🔥The Four Canteens of life.
🔥When you think about the future you develop anxiety, when you think about the past you get depressed, stay in the moment of the present.
🔥Principle of the wells
🔥Suicidal thought is a killer of your becoming.
🔥The more you uncover, the more you become.
🔥God has created you on purpose with a purpose for a purpose.
🔥Until you decide to move from your comfort zone, becoming will not become a reality.
🔥Have a attitude to gratitude

I tell you this episode is another bomber. Don’t just listen alone, tag a friend, share with family and send me your thought, this is your Ephphatha Moment.

From confinement to fulfilling your purpose.

On this episode with me is Naomi Adedoyin. 
She is a #1 best selling author and prolific writer, whose works have been published on several reputable platforms. She is a single mom with three amazing kids. She is passionate about transforming lives and empowering women. She is also deeply concerned about women and redefining society's perception of women and the gender based obstacles that diverse women experience. She writes cardinal nonfiction and fiction novellas that shape lives and help people make the best out of life.

Through programs in her foundation (Enough Woman Foundation), she empowers abused and vulnerable women to rewrite their stories and live a meaningful life. 

She also writes articles on www.theshadowedself.org to help traumatised people through everyday challenges as they commence their journey of healing and self-discovery. 

She runs a business consultancy where she uses gained industry skills to empower small-medium sized businesses to get visible, grow and sustain profitability in the long run.

Finally, she runs a platform called Single Parent Axis (SPA). A safe space for single parents, to help them cope with unspoken everyday life challenges as well as provide them with tips that’d help their parenting journey.

We spoke about Enough: love booming or bombing! 

When someone start showering you with gift before you get too familiar, pay attention to their motive, expecially when used with an intention and affection excessively.

Do you know anyone can be a naccessiste?
Your friend, partner, your children, even colleagues at work.

🌟 Subtle manipulation , they love bomb you so you can depend on their affection.

🌟Every abuser might not be a naccessiste.

🌟Your children may be developing trait of naccessiste…pay more attention.

🌟Little signs of love bombing is when they should apolozies they decide to buy a gift to avoid the apologies.

🌟They deprive your need (attention,gift etc)

🌟Healthy people can also become toxic

🌟7 stages for trauma bonding

🌟They love bombed you before they love boom you.

🌟Naomi shared her story.

Naomi is the author of ENOUGH #1 best selling and she is willing to give out 5 books as a gift, so if you want  1  or if you know anyone going through such moment, kindly send me an email and it is yours.

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On this episode my guest was able to dig into this topic Embracing your story, owning your journey, using his story to shed light into the topic, awakening the giant you, opening your eyes to see the power in your story. What is your story, are you the victim or the perpetrator? How do you own it and be a blessing.

Meet ITOFA IVARA
 
Ivarah Itofa is a Non Profit Management Consultant & the Principal Consultant at ID Consulting; a management Consulting firm helping medium and small NGO's in  the U.K & Nigeria.

A recepient of the 2020 United Nations Millennium Fellowship in recognition of his contribution towards working on sustainable projects to end food insecurity among children in remote communities in Nigeria through his organization Church on The Street he founded at Nineteen.

Ivarah Itofa is a seasoned Speaker passionate about sharing a message of Hope and transformation to Millennials and Gen-Z through his story of struggle & triumph.

Don't forget to share with your friends and family, no doubt, today is your Ephphatha Moment, claim it and start fulfilling purpose. 

This episode is a special one and can't wait to share with you.

As I was preparing to speak at the just concluded programme at @fiercefederation, thanks @peacegeorge for the opportunity. God said tell them 'YOU ARE A GIFT' I prepared and delivered as instructed. After the programme I couldn't sleep, God woke me up again with the same word, so I stood up and recorded this very episode and been waiting to share with you.

Often time we forget we are God’s most treasured possession, we believe because we have been battered on the outside God’s deposition/treasures in us have been affected also but that is a lie. Why not listen to find out, I hope this episode stir up the hunger to be who you are mearnt to be.

Please take your time, listen to the episode, also feel free to pass it on to your friends and family. Don't forget to send me your reviews and topic you would like me to touch on next.

Lots of love